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Heather Rose
Heather Rose
Heather Rose

Identity Recovery Coach

Helping Women Rebuild Their Confidence, Identity and Sense of Self

After Baby Loss, Trauma, Grief and Life Changing Experiences

Identity Recovery Coach  ·  Deep Structure NLP Practitioner  ·  Helping women who feel lost, stuck or disconnected from themselves find their way back to who they are.

Hi, I'm Heather Rose.

I'm an Identity Recovery Coach, and I help women who have been through baby loss, trauma, grief, illness, relationship breakdowns, motherhood, burnout, or major life changes rebuild their confidence, reconnect with who they are, and move forward with purpose.

For many years, I thought confidence was the thing I was missing.

What I eventually realised was that I hadn't lost my confidence at all.
I'd lost myself.

Life had happened. Trauma had happened. Grief had happened. Loss had happened.
And somewhere along the way, I stopped recognising the woman staring back at me.

I've experienced seven miscarriages, anxiety, trauma, depression, chronic illness, and some incredibly difficult chapters that changed the way I saw myself and the world around me. Like many women, I became so busy surviving that I lost connection with who I truly was.

The Discovery

My journey led me to explore mindset work, personal development, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), confidence building, trauma awareness, emotional healing, and identity work.

What I discovered changed everything.

Most women don't need fixing.

They need reconnecting.

Because underneath the self doubt, people pleasing, fear, overwhelm, and lack of confidence is still the woman they've always been. My work helps women understand what happened to them, release the beliefs that are keeping them stuck, and rebuild a strong sense of identity, confidence, self worth, and purpose.

Today I combine Deep Structure NLP, coaching, mindset tools, and lived experience to help women move from feeling lost, stuck, disconnected, and unsure of themselves to feeling confident, empowered, and excited about who they are becoming.

Because you are not starting from scratch.

You are rebuilding from experience.

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Who I Serve

I work with women who feel like they've lost themselves.

Women who look successful on the outside but feel disconnected, stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of who they are anymore.

Many of my clients have experienced:

  • Baby loss, miscarriage, infertility or IVF journeys
  • Trauma or difficult life experiences
  • Grief and bereavement
  • Relationship breakdowns
  • Burnout and emotional exhaustion
  • Major life transitions
  • Loss of confidence and self belief
  • Feeling stuck, lost or lacking purpose
  • People pleasing and putting everyone else first
  • Limiting beliefs that keep them playing small

They often tell me:

I don't know who I am anymore
I've lost my confidence
I feel stuck
I don't feel like myself
I know there's more to life than this
I want to move forward but something keeps holding me back

If that sounds familiar, you're not broken.

You may simply be disconnected from the version of yourself that existed before life taught you to shrink. And that's exactly what we work on together.

Why Work With Me

There are lots of coaches who focus on confidence.

I focus on what sits underneath confidence.

Identity.

Because when your identity feels shaken by trauma, loss, grief, illness, motherhood, or life changing experiences, confidence techniques alone often don't work.

That's why my approach combines Deep Structure NLP, trauma aware coaching, mindset work, emotional healing, and practical tools that help you create lasting change. I also have lots of personal experience of living through baby loss, trauma, PTSD, anxiety and grief so I totally understand.

Together we uncover what's really keeping you stuck, challenge limiting beliefs, rebuild self trust, strengthen your sense of self, and help you move forward with confidence and clarity.

Don't just learn to think differently

Learn to reconnect with themselves again

Stop wondering where the old you went

Start building a future that feels truly yours

If you're ready to stop wondering where the old you went and start building a future that feels aligned, meaningful, and truly yours, I'd love to help.

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